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Gumboot Friday: Kiwis ditch shoes in favour of gumboots in support of kids' mental health

Scores of Kiwis are ditching their loafers, heels or sneakers in favour of gumboots today, in support of inaugural mental health initiative Gumboot Friday.

Mental health charity I AM HOPE and its founder - New Zealander of the Year Mike King - have launched the initiative to raise money and awareness for children's mental health.

Kiwis are being encouraged to don a pair of gumboots to work or school and bring a gold coin donation.

Gumboot Friday aims to raise $2 million, to fund an unspecified number of counselling sessions.

King's organisation I AM HOPE said the fundraiser was a fun way for Kiwis to join in the mental health conversation, while raising money to provide free counselling for kids in need.

Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern is throwing her weight behind the campaign.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=12219472

Kyle MacDonald: Jami-Lee Ross and New Zealand's need for compassion

We now live in an age of Twitter pile-ons, 24-hour news, and tribal politics and have become only too happy to leap on an opinion, or a way of seeing the world we disapprove of, to vilify and belittle.

Indeed the week's events involving Member of Parliament Jami-Lee Ross made for robust, heated, tribal, political drama - right up to the point where it was announced he was undergoing mental health treatment.

And I'm not suggesting for one moment that Mr Ross' alleged abuse of women and misuse of power be excused.

But It has made me wonder whether those of us who bray for political blood are both responsible for the events that made this sort of abuse possible, and the fallout now visited upon Mr Ross - and the alleged victims of his behaviour.

Because we can't relish the opportunity to hate without also accepting - and taking responsibility for - its inevitable consequences.

We can't advocate for better mental health for all without acknowledging the role that abuse of power and bullying plays in the emotional wellbeing of our communities.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

Psychotherapist Kyle MacDonald: My concerns about Mental Health Awareness Week

You'd think Mental Health Awareness Week would be one of my favourite weeks of the year.

But you'd be wrong. Fact is, I feel deeply conflicted about it, and no more so than this year.

In principal, it's a good idea: that we take some time to raise awareness about mental health, to talk more openly about what helps and the impact of mental health problems.

It's also true that lots of good awareness work, year on year, has brought us to the point where we are talking more openly than ever before about depression, anxiety and confronting stigma head on.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

 

Kyle MacDonald: The Truth About People Who Are 'Self-destructive'

The idea we can do things to sabotage ourselves is one of those concepts that has much common sense appeal. Yet what are we actually saying when we describe ourselves - or other people - as being self destructive?

Most often it's a throwaway line: "I don't know why I did it. I guess I'm just self-destructive". Without doubt, many things we do - that may not make much sense to us - can seem that way.

Drinking or taking drugs to excess, deliberately hurting ourselves, arguing with and hurting those we love, avoiding important meetings or even job interviews, can all make it look like we're our own worst enemy.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

Kyle MacDonald: What We've Misunderstood About the Kids of Fraser High

Confession time: I was a truant. In my final year of school, I was rarely there after lunch on Fridays, never at "study periods" and would just randomly leave school at other times.

Attempts to discipline me weren't very successful, largely because I ignored them and also because I was passing everything, as well as being engaged in other school activities.

Truth was, I wasn't an "entitled little snot", or a "loser". I was really unhappy. My parents had separated. I had peers who were struggling with various issues and a very close friend who had suffered a big loss.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

 

Kyle MacDonald: Kiwi Feminists Discriminating Against our Transgender Community

There is little question biological sex is one of the bedrocks of our identity. It's generally the first question we ask of new or expectant parents: "Is it a boy or a girl?"

Gender has always been more flexible though. One doesn't have to look very deeply at history to see that the meaning of male and female has been more fluid than some might feel comfortable admitting.

Dominating the conversation around gender last century was, of course, feminism, the rise of women's rights and the fight for equality: a fight which continues.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

 

Kyle MacDonald: What You Really Need to Know About Your Personality Type

Whether it be horoscopes, character types or personality tests human beings have always sought to classify people as a way to try and understand ourselves and others.

Unsurprisingly, there is a branch of psychology dedicated to it: the psychology of individual differences.

The "Myers-Briggs" test is probably the most well-known personality test, based on Carl Jung's ideas. It's a test that has little empirical value and has largely been debunked in academic circles. Despite that - or perhaps because of our fascination with categorising - it has persisted.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

 

Kyle MacDonald: The Uncomfortable Truth About New Zealanders and Suicide

668.

That is the provisional number of people who died by suicide in the last 12 months, ending June 2018, announced last Friday.

Last week we also saw a very understandable and heartfelt outpouring of grief in response to the death of broadcaster Greg Boyed, but without wanting to minimise his death, that number of 668 means that every 13 hours on average in New Zealand another family, whanau, community, workplace, school or sports club is quietly being impacted with that kind of grief.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

 

Kyle MacDonald: Harry Potter, School Expulsions and the Nature of Evil

aving just re-read the Harry Potter books, I was reminded that one of the things I love about them is the way they explore what it means to be "evil."

By the end of the book we understand that even though Voldemort represents the epitome of darkness, the reality is much more complicated. With Sirius, Snape, Dumbledore even Harry, "bad" is something that is much harder to define.

But the appeal of truly evil characters like Voldemort is that they make it crystal clear where the badness is, and we can rest assured that if we defeat the bad guy, we defeat evil once and for all.

If only it were that simple.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...

Kyle MacDonald: Is Jacinda Ardern Guilty of 'Virtue Signalling'?

Language never ceases to amaze me: words and how we use them are the tools of therapy. They most clearly express our thoughts, our ideas and who we are.

Which is why the whole inherent contradiction of modern day, double-think weasel words such as "virtue signalling" - much like its linguistic ancestor "politically correct" - annoy me so much.

Reputedly coined by the right wing British Magazine "The Spectator", it describes people saying things that indicate their virtue simply to make themselves look good.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=12...